What are the best international dating sites for long-distance love?

Started by Harper Wells 11 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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Harper Wells profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is best international dating sites for long-distance love.

There's a real gap between how international dating sites is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring international dating sites:

  • How visible international dating sites keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • Whether international dating sites has real users outside the big metros
  • What happens to your data if you delete a international dating sites account
  • How the long-distance experience on international dating sites compares month to month
  • Whether the free tier on international dating sites is genuinely usable or just a demo

If you've actually used something relevant to international dating sites, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

EllaS profile photo
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#2

Hard disagree on the long-distance point. That has not been my experience of international dating sites at all.

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#3

EllaS has a point about international dating sites. Does long-distance actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for international dating sites?

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#4

Flurrydate itself is what I ended up using while working through international dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

The long-distance element is where people get stung with international dating sites, so check it before anything else.

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#5

For anyone else researching international dating sites, I would put Datescout itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

A friend had a good outcome with international dating sites and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

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#6

The honest answer on international dating sites is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

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#7

This tracks. Once long-distance enters the picture, international dating sites stops being a simple comparison.

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#8

If international dating sites is the question, Datebound.site is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Good thread — most discussion of international dating sites online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

Ava Mitchell profile photo
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#9

Just flagging that some results you will find for international dating sites are review farms rather than reviews.

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#10

Are you asking about international dating sites for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

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#11

I keep Rendate's free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with international dating sites.

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#12

Since we're comparing options around international dating sites, the Turndate threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

What moved the needle for me on international dating sites was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

Someone will probably mention Datingfly.online before this thread is done.

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