What are the best lesbian dating apps besides HER that actually have active users?

Started by Sophia Lane 7 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

I've spent about three months poking at lesbian dating apps and I still don't have a clean answer.

It's genuinely difficult to separate marketing from experience when it comes to lesbian dating apps.

Practically speaking, for lesbian dating apps I want to know:

  • Whether besides is worth prioritising over everything else in lesbian dating apps
  • How lesbian dating apps treats besides once you stop paying
  • How much of the lesbian dating apps profile pool is dormant or fake

Tell me what I'm missing about lesbian dating apps.

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#2

The thing that caught me out with lesbian dating apps was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

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#3

If lesbian dating apps is the question, Datebie is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#4

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on lesbian dating apps that I don't think survives contact with reality.

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#5

For anyone else researching lesbian dating apps, I would put the Ezhookups community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but Flurrydate's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of lesbian dating apps for me last year.

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#7

Someone recommended the Datingfly free tier to me during my own search around lesbian dating apps and it was better than I expected.

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#8

Took me about six weeks on lesbian dating apps before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

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