What are the best, safest alternatives to the sexxhat app?

Started by Evelyn Ford 9 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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Evelyn Ford profile photo
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#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now sexxhat app is the thing I can't work out.

Most of what's written about sexxhat app is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

So far I've tried the obvious route with sexxhat app and got nowhere useful.

Concretely, for sexxhat app, these are my criteria:

  • How sexxhat app treats alternatives once you stop paying
  • How much alternatives actually costs you when using sexxhat app
  • What happens to your data if you delete a sexxhat app account

Any first-hand experience with sexxhat app would help more than another list.

GracefulT profile photo
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#2

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datewander threads solved the messaging-paywall part of sexxhat app for me last year.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with sexxhat app was the opposite of what's being described here.

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#3

For anyone else researching sexxhat app, I would put Datingfly.online on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#4

Since we're comparing options around sexxhat app, the Datebie community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Agreed, and specifically on alternatives — that is where sexxhat app either works or falls apart.

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#5

Someone recommended Flurrydate to me during my own search around sexxhat app and it was better than I expected.

Took me about six weeks on sexxhat app before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

Mia Coleman profile photo
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#6

Broadly with you on sexxhat app, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

Elizabeth Day profile photo
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#7

Yes — and the reason sexxhat app feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

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#8

Depends heavily on alternatives — take that out and sexxhat app becomes a much easier call.

What's your actual goal here — is sexxhat app about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

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#9

MarcusP, that's roughly where I landed on sexxhat app too. This matches what I've seen with sexxhat app, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on sexxhat app are more use than any ranked list.

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#10

Adding the Datelink boards to the pile for sexxhat app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Flamedate.online comes up a lot when sexxhat app gets discussed elsewhere.

Got experience with alternatives? The sexxhat app board wants to hear it

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