What are the best sites to talk to strangers sex anonymously without judgment?

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Mason Clark profile photo
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#1

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: best sites to talk to strangers sex anonymously without judgment.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on best sites and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around best sites before posting.

Setting anonymously aside for a second, this is what I need from best sites:

  • How best sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • Whether anonymously is worth prioritising over everything else in best sites
  • Whether anonymously is the reason best sites feels inconsistent
  • Whether the matching in best sites does anything beyond distance
  • What happens to your data if you delete a best sites account

Particularly interested in the anonymously side of best sites if anyone has been there.

JoshuaM profile photo
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#2

Adding the Flurrydate community to the pile for best sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Emily Carr profile photo
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#3

There is a version of best sites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

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#4

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where best sites is concerned?

EllaS profile photo
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#5

If best sites is the question, the Datescout forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Lucas Wilson profile photo
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#6

Disagree on one point: best sites is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Yes — and the reason best sites feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

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#7

Someone recommended Ezhookups to me during my own search around best sites and it was better than I expected.

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#8

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datenest boards solved the messaging-paywall part of best sites for me last year.

Took me about six weeks on best sites before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

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#9

the Flamedate forums is what I ended up using while working through best sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#10

I keep Datebound's free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with best sites.

Which parts of best sites have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

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#11

Disagree with ScarlettR slightly here on best sites. For context on best sites: I'm mid-thirties, mid-size city, and the pool was thinner than the marketing suggested.

I read best sites differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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#12

My own run at best sites: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

The thing that caught me out with best sites was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

For completeness, Datebie.online sits in the same category for best sites.

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