What are the dating sites for nerds with the most active users?

Someone in another thread mentioned dating sites in passing and it's been bugging me since.

The frustrating part about dating sites is that the honest answers are buried in comment sections, not articles.

What I'm trying to weigh up with dating sites:

• How dating sites handles nerds compared with the bigger names
• What the nerds side of dating sites looks like in practice
• How dating sites treats nerds once you stop paying
• Whether nerds makes any material difference to dating sites
• How the nerds experience on dating sites compares month to month

Even a 'don't bother' on dating sites is a useful answer.

Someone recommended the Flamedate forums to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Once I sorted out nerds, the rest of dating sites became much more manageable than I expected.

Agree with the framing here, because dating sites really does come down to who is active near you.

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, the Flurrydate forums came up when I was looking at the same thing.

The thing that caught me out with dating sites was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put Ezhookups on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Be careful with dating sites: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

Agreed, and specifically on nerds — that is where dating sites either works or falls apart.