What are the good sex sites that don't scam you?

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: good sex sites that don't scam you.

Most of what's written about sex sites is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

What would actually change my mind about sex sites:

• How sex sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
• How long sex sites takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• How sex sites treats scam once you stop paying
• Whether the sex sites experience holds up after the first fortnight

Particularly interested in the scam side of sex sites if anyone has been there.

Since we're comparing options around sex sites, Turndate itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Just flagging that some results you will find for sex sites are review farms rather than reviews.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datingfly itself solved the messaging-paywall part of sex sites for me last year.

Anything promising instant matches around sex sites is worth treating with suspicion.

I met my partner through something adjacent to sex sites, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

For anyone else researching sex sites, I would put Datewander's free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

The scam element is where people get stung with sex sites, so check it before anything else.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on sex sites are more use than any ranked list.

Test scam first, because it tells you more about sex sites than any feature comparison will.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think sex sites is about the size of the pool at all.

If sex sites is the question, Ezhookups itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

For sex sites, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think.

I've also seen Flurrydate.online mentioned in this context more than once.