What are the highest-rated dating websites for over 40 singles who are divorced?

I keep running into the same wall with dating websites and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

Nothing I can find on dating websites addresses singles in any depth.

Specifically, on dating websites, the things I actually care about are:

• Whether singles is worth prioritising over everything else in dating websites
• How visible dating websites keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
• What moderation on dating websites actually looks like when you report someone
• Whether singles makes any material difference to dating websites

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on dating websites.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating websites, so nobody repeats what you know?

Picking up what TamaraJ said — dating websites is regional first. There is a version of dating websites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

For anyone else researching dating websites, I would put Datingfly on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Someone recommended Turndate.site to me during my own search around dating websites and it was better than I expected.

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on dating websites that I don't think survives contact with reality.

Disagree with Owen Martinez slightly here on dating websites. For context on dating websites: I'm mid-thirties, mid-size city, and the pool was thinner than the marketing suggested.

I keep Flamedate itself open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating websites.

If dating websites is the question, Datebie itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.