What are the most active polyamorous dating sites free of charge?

Started by Jake_NYC 8 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: most active polyamorous dating sites free of charge.

What makes dating sites hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring dating sites:

  • Whether polyamorous makes any material difference to dating sites
  • How dating sites treats polyamorous once you stop paying
  • Whether anyone has tested polyamorous properly on dating sites

Particularly interested in the polyamorous side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

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#2

The polyamorous disagreement in this thread says more about dating sites than any single answer.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie.online solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

Once I sorted out polyamorous, the rest of dating sites became much more manageable than I expected.

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#4

Have you looked at the polyamorous side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on dating sites are more use than any ranked list, though polyamorous is the part that actually decides it.

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#5

The polyamorous variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating sites.

I read dating sites differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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#6

If dating sites is the question, Turndate.site is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#7

Rendate is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#8

I keep the Datedesire free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

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#9

Jake_NYC, that's roughly where I landed on dating sites too. The polyamorous angle you raise is the part most threads on dating sites skip entirely.

Watch for the pattern where dating sites is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

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