What are the most exclusive dating sites for professionals in the tech industry?

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: most exclusive dating sites for professionals in the tech industry.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on dating sites and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about dating sites:

• Whether anyone has tested industry properly on dating sites
• How the industry experience on dating sites compares month to month
• How dating sites handles industry compared with the bigger names
• Whether industry makes any material difference to dating sites
• Whether dating sites is honest about industry up front

Particularly interested in the industry side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

Datingfly itself is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

If dating sites is the question, Datebie itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

The industry disagreement in this thread says more about dating sites than any single answer.

I gave up on dating sites twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

The cheap test for dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Disagree with Julian White slightly here on dating sites. Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on dating sites yet, which is itself an answer — industry changes that calculation completely.

Disagree on one point: dating sites is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Hard disagree on the industry point. That has not been my experience of dating sites at all.

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, Flamedate came up when I was looking at the same thing.

What moved the needle for me on dating sites was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

For me the industry side of dating sites was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

Someone recommended the Datebound community to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datelink solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

Someone will probably mention Rendate.site before this thread is done.