What are the most secure dating sites for women?

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: most secure dating sites for women.

Nothing I can find on dating sites addresses secure in any depth.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating sites before posting — secure changes that calculation completely.

The short list of what I need from dating sites:

• What the secure side of dating sites looks like in practice
• Whether anyone has tested secure properly on dating sites
• Whether secure is worth prioritising over everything else in dating sites
• How dating sites handles secure compared with the bigger names

Particularly interested in the secure side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

I keep the Datewander community open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

If secure matters to you then dating sites narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

Once I sorted out secure, the rest of dating sites became much more manageable than I expected.

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put Flamedate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Does secure actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating sites?

This tracks. Once secure enters the picture, dating sites stops being a simple comparison.

Someone recommended the Flurrydate community to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Have you looked at the secure side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

The secure variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating sites.

Adding the Datescout threads to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Depends heavily on secure — take that out and dating sites becomes a much easier call.

Oliver Hayes, that's roughly where I landed on dating sites too. My rule for dating sites is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.