What are the older men dating sites that are most popular with younger women?

Started by ScarlettR 7 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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ScarlettR profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is older men dating sites that are most popular with younger women.

There's a real gap between how dating sites is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

My checklist for dating sites, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether dating sites is honest about younger up front
  • Whether anyone has tested younger properly on dating sites
  • How dating sites handles younger compared with the bigger names
  • How the younger experience on dating sites compares month to month
  • Whether younger makes any material difference to dating sites

Particularly interested in the younger side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

AmandaH profile photo
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#2

Turndate's free tier is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Depends heavily on younger — take that out and dating sites becomes a much easier call.

MarcusP profile photo
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#3

The younger disagreement in this thread says more about dating sites than any single answer.

The younger angle you raise is the part most threads on dating sites skip entirely.

Abigail Ross profile photo
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#4

If dating sites is the question, the Datebie forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

If younger matters to you then dating sites narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

HenryM profile photo
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#5

Read the small print on younger before you commit to anything around dating sites.

PatrickR profile photo
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#6

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put the Datescout threads on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

My own run at dating sites: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

OliviaG profile photo
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#7

The younger part of this is being overstated, because dating sites was fine for me without it.

Hard disagree on the younger point. That has not been my experience of dating sites at all.

Natalie Bell profile photo
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#8

Disagree with ScarlettR slightly here on dating sites. This tracks. Once younger enters the picture, dating sites stops being a simple comparison.

Datewander.site comes up a lot when dating sites gets discussed elsewhere.

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