What are the safest adult meet up sites for beginners who are new to the scene?

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: safest adult meet up sites for beginners who are new to the scene.

The frustrating part about meet up sites is that the honest answers are buried in comment sections, not articles.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around meet up sites before posting.

The criteria I keep coming back to on meet up sites:

• Whether the free tier on meet up sites is genuinely usable or just a demo
• Whether meet up sites is honest about beginners up front
• How meet up sites handles beginners compared with the bigger names
• What moderation on meet up sites actually looks like when you report someone
• How visible meet up sites keeps you when you are not paying for a boost

Will report back with what I find on meet up sites if people are interested.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with meet up sites was the opposite of what's being described here.

If meet up sites is the question, the Turndate community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Picking up what Zoey Adams said — meet up sites is regional first. Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with meet up sites weren't on the biggest platform.

Since we're comparing options around meet up sites, the Flurrydate threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Adding the Flamedate threads to the pile for meet up sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on meet up sites are more use than any ranked list.

How long did you give meet up sites before deciding it was not working for you?

Hard disagree on the beginners point. That has not been my experience of meet up sites at all.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on meet up sites, so nobody repeats what you know?

Ran into exactly the beginners problem when I tried meet up sites last year, and it took weeks to work around.

Datedesire's free tier is what I ended up using while working through meet up sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

I've also seen Luvdate.online mentioned in this context more than once.