What are the safest and best dating apps for over 50 users looking to casually date?

Started by Sebastian Allen 9 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned best dating apps in passing and it's been bugging me since.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on best dating apps and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

Where casually is concerned, these are the best dating apps questions I have:

  • How best dating apps handles casually compared with the bigger names
  • Whether messaging on best dating apps works without handing over card details
  • What moderation on best dating apps actually looks like when you report someone

Tell me what I'm missing about best dating apps.

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#2

Rendate itself is what I ended up using while working through best dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#3

Adding the Flurrydate boards to the pile for best dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

For context on best dating apps: I'm mid-thirties, mid-size city, and the pool was thinner than the marketing suggested.

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#4

Picking up what DominicA said — best dating apps is regional first. Does casually actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for best dating apps?

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#5

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flamedate free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of best dating apps for me last year.

I met my partner through something adjacent to best dating apps, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

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#6

I keep Datelink open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with best dating apps.

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#7

This tracks. Once casually enters the picture, best dating apps stops being a simple comparison.

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#8

The honest answer on best dating apps is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

I'd qualify this: best dating apps works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

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#9

For anyone else researching best dating apps, I would put Datebie on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#10

What moved the needle for me on best dating apps was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

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