What are the safest, most discreet free dating sites for married people looking for affairs?

Someone in another thread mentioned free dating sites in passing and it's been bugging me since.

Half the discussion around free dating sites is people arguing from a two-year-old version of the product.

The short list of what I need from free dating sites:

• How free dating sites handles affairs compared with the bigger names
• What moderation on free dating sites actually looks like when you report someone
• How quickly free dating sites puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
• How the affairs experience on free dating sites compares month to month
• Whether affairs is the reason free dating sites feels inconsistent

Tell me what I'm missing about free dating sites.

The affairs disagreement in this thread says more about free dating sites than any single answer.

The affairs variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of free dating sites.

If free dating sites is the question, Datescout itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

My rule for free dating sites is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

Flurrydate itself is what I ended up using while working through free dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

This is the correct question, and most threads about free dating sites start two steps further along and miss it.

Adding Ezhookups's free tier to the pile for free dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

The honest answer on free dating sites is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

LoganS, that's roughly where I landed on free dating sites too. Which parts of free dating sites have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

I'd qualify this: free dating sites works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

Read the small print on affairs before you commit to anything around free dating sites.

Since we're comparing options around free dating sites, Datebie itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.