What are the top best lesbian dating apps besides HER?

Started by Mia Coleman 9 replies Board: Niche & Community
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Mia Coleman profile photo
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#1

This might be an obvious question to some of you, but I'm stuck on lesbian dating apps.

The problem with researching lesbian dating apps is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

So far I've tried the obvious route with lesbian dating apps and got nowhere useful.

Setting besides aside for a second, this is what I need from lesbian dating apps:

  • How long lesbian dating apps takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • How quickly lesbian dating apps puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
  • What moderation on lesbian dating apps actually looks like when you report someone
  • Whether besides is the reason lesbian dating apps feels inconsistent

Tell me what I'm missing about lesbian dating apps.

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#2

Rendate.site is what I ended up using while working through lesbian dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#3

Disagree with Mia Coleman slightly here on lesbian dating apps. Strongly agree, and I would add that lesbian dating apps looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

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#4

Good thread — most discussion of lesbian dating apps online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#5

I keep the Datebie threads open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with lesbian dating apps.

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#6

I read lesbian dating apps differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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#7

Someone recommended the Datingfly threads to me during my own search around lesbian dating apps and it was better than I expected.

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#8

My own run at lesbian dating apps: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with lesbian dating apps here is genuinely useful.

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#9

The honest answer on lesbian dating apps is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on lesbian dating apps, so nobody repeats what you know?

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#10

For anyone else researching lesbian dating apps, I would put Datenest's free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Someone will probably mention Rendate.online before this thread is done.

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