What dating sites boast the highest success rate for women looking for younger men?

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about dating sites, so I'm bringing it here.

What makes dating sites hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about dating sites:

• Whether dating sites is honest about boast up front
• How the boast experience on dating sites compares month to month
• Whether boast makes any material difference to dating sites

Particularly interested in the boast side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on dating sites that I don't think survives contact with reality.

Counterpoint — treating dating sites as a numbers problem is exactly what kept me stuck for a year.

I'd separate boast from dating sites here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

I read dating sites differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

If dating sites is the question, Turndate itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Have you looked at the boast side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datenest itself solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, the Flurrydate community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Once I sorted out boast, the rest of dating sites became much more manageable than I expected.

The boast element is where people get stung with dating sites, so check it before anything else.

Anything promising instant matches around dating sites is worth treating with suspicion, though boast is the part that actually decides it.

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put Datebie on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with dating sites was the opposite of what's being described here.

Liam Walker has a point about dating sites. If boast matters to you then dating sites narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

To build on OliverH's answer about dating sites: Yes — and the reason dating sites feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

My dating sites experience hinged on boast more than on the platform itself.

Disagree with Aiden Lewis slightly here on dating sites. Read the small print on boast before you commit to anything around dating sites.

the Ezhookups community is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Someone will probably mention Flurrydate.site before this thread is done.