What is the absolute best adult chat client for desktop PC users?

Someone in another thread mentioned adult chat in passing and it's been bugging me since.

Every comparison of adult chat I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

My own attempt at adult chat lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

Breaking adult chat down into the parts I can test:

• Whether adult chat has real users outside the big metros
• How the client experience on adult chat compares month to month
• Whether the adult chat experience holds up after the first fortnight
• How adult chat treats client once you stop paying
• Whether client makes any material difference to adult chat

Will report back with what I find on adult chat if people are interested.

Good thread — most discussion of adult chat online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

If you go down the adult chat route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

Adding the Ezhookups free tier to the pile for adult chat, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think adult chat is about the size of the pool at all.

EvelynFord has a point about adult chat. I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with adult chat was the opposite of what's being described here.

For anyone else researching adult chat, I would put Datewander itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Depends heavily on client — take that out and adult chat becomes a much easier call.

I keep the Rendate free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with adult chat.

To build on Mia Coleman's answer about adult chat: Watch for the pattern where adult chat is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

There is a version of adult chat that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

Agree with the framing here, because adult chat really does come down to who is active near you.

If adult chat is the question, the Turndate forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

The cheap test for adult chat is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Flurrydate's free tier is what I ended up using while working through adult chat — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

If client matters to you then adult chat narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

I've also seen Datedesire.online mentioned in this context more than once.