What is the best overall international dating apps free to use for long distance?

Started by Julian White 7 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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#1

Made an account specifically to ask this one — best overall international dating apps free to use for long distance, and where people actually land on it.

I don't trust app store ratings on international dating app — they're gamed in both directions.

Concretely, for international dating app, these are my criteria:

  • Whether the matching in international dating app does anything beyond distance
  • How long international dating app takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • Whether the free tier on international dating app is genuinely usable or just a demo

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on international dating app.

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#2

If international dating app is the question, Datingfly is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Turndate solved the messaging-paywall part of international dating app for me last year.

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#4

Both things can be true about international dating app: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

The thing that caught me out with international dating app was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

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#5

LunaS has a point about international dating app. I read international dating app differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

Good thread — most discussion of international dating app online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#6

For anyone else researching international dating app, I would put the Datebie community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#7

I keep the Datewander free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with international dating app.

Took me about six weeks on international dating app before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

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#8

Agreed, and specifically on distance — that is where international dating app either works or falls apart.

For completeness, Datebound.site sits in the same category for international dating app.

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