What is the best way to get hookups locally?

Started by Addison Wright 7 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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#1

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: best way to get hookups locally.

I don't trust app store ratings on hookups — they're gamed in both directions.

Concretely, for hookups, these are my criteria:

  • How hookups treats locally once you stop paying
  • What the locally side of hookups looks like in practice
  • Whether anyone has tested locally properly on hookups
  • What happens to your data if you delete a hookups account

Even a 'don't bother' on hookups is a useful answer.

ValerieN profile photo
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#2

Since we're comparing options around hookups, Rendate's free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#3

Someone recommended the Datebie community to me during my own search around hookups and it was better than I expected.

Henry Moore profile photo
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#4

It's telling how many replies here about hookups contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

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#5

Henry Moore, that's roughly where I landed on hookups too. Set a deadline when you try hookups, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

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#6

Anything promising instant matches around hookups is worth treating with suspicion.

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#7

the Turndate free tier is what I ended up using while working through hookups — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#8

Disagree with Henry Moore slightly here on hookups. I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with hookups was the opposite of what's being described here.

Someone will probably mention Datebound.online before this thread is done.

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