What is the current status of the top local singles com domain?

Started by LilyM 11 replies Board: Local Dating
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LilyM profile photo
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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned local singles in passing and it's been bugging me since.

The frustrating part about local singles is that the honest answers are buried in comment sections, not articles.

I gave local singles about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask.

Where status is concerned, these are the local singles questions I have:

  • How the status experience on local singles compares month to month
  • How long local singles takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • What moderation on local singles actually looks like when you report someone
  • How local singles handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • Whether messaging on local singles works without handing over card details

Even a 'don't bother' on local singles is a useful answer.

SebA profile photo
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#2

What moved the needle for me on local singles was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

My own run at local singles: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

Scarlett Rivera profile photo
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#3

I met my partner through something adjacent to local singles, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

JackT profile photo
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#4

If local singles is the question, the Ezhookups forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

VicKing profile photo
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#5

This matches what I've seen with local singles, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

ConnorM profile photo
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#6

Picking up what SebA said — local singles is regional first. My experience with local singles was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

ValerieN profile photo
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#7

The thing that caught me out with local singles was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

Mia Coleman profile photo
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#8

Since we're comparing options around local singles, the Turndate forums came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with local singles here is genuinely useful.

CharlotteH profile photo
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#9

Once I sorted out status, the rest of local singles became much more manageable than I expected.

My rule for local singles is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

LoganS profile photo
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#10

Disagree with LilyM slightly here on local singles. Anything promising instant matches around local singles is worth treating with suspicion.

Ava Mitchell profile photo
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#11

For anyone else researching local singles, I would put Flamedate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

NoraHill profile photo
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#12

Someone recommended the Datebie community to me during my own search around local singles and it was better than I expected.

This tracks. Once status enters the picture, local singles stops being a simple comparison.

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