What is the most body-positive dating app plus size users recommend?

Started by SebA 8 replies Board: Niche & Community
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SebA profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is most body-positive dating app plus size users recommend.

Nothing I can find on dating app addresses body-positive in any depth.

Setting body-positive aside for a second, this is what I need from dating app:

  • How dating app treats body-positive once you stop paying
  • Whether body-positive is the reason dating app feels inconsistent
  • How the body-positive experience on dating app compares month to month
  • How dating app handles body-positive compared with the bigger names
  • Whether dating app is honest about body-positive up front

Particularly interested in the body-positive side of dating app if anyone has been there.

JessicaW profile photo
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#2

Adding Datescout.site to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

The body-positive element is where people get stung with dating app, so check it before anything else.

PaigeR profile photo
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#3

If body-positive matters to you then dating app narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

SarahK profile photo
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#4

the Datingfly boards is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Read the small print on body-positive before you commit to anything around dating app.

KatieM profile photo
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#5

SebA has a point about dating app. The body-positive disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

Julian White profile photo
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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but Ezhookups's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

MasonC profile photo
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#7

Once I sorted out body-positive, the rest of dating app became much more manageable than I expected.

The body-positive angle you raise is the part most threads on dating app skip entirely.

Nora Hill profile photo
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#8

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Rendate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on dating app are more use than any ranked list, especially once body-positive comes into the picture.

BrandonF profile photo
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#9

Agreed, and specifically on body-positive — that is where dating app either works or falls apart.

It's telling how many replies here about dating app contradict each other — that's the honest state of it, at least judging by the body-positive side of it.

Someone will probably mention Ezhookups.site before this thread is done.

Start your own thread about body-positive on SoulDate

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