What is the most discreet app to use for a dirty chat online while at work?

Started by ZoeyA 10 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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ZoeyA profile photo
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#1

I keep running into the same wall with discreet app and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on discreet app and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around discreet app before posting.

The parts of discreet app I'd want covered:

  • How visible discreet app keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • How discreet app treats dirty once you stop paying
  • Whether the discreet app experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • Whether the matching in discreet app does anything beyond distance

If you've actually used something relevant to discreet app, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

Olivia Grant profile photo
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#2

Anything promising instant matches around discreet app is worth treating with suspicion.

The dirty angle you raise is the part most threads on discreet app skip entirely.

Lily Moore profile photo
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#3

I keep Datewander open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with discreet app.

Read the small print on dirty before you commit to anything around discreet app.

Mason Clark profile photo
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#4

For anyone else researching discreet app, I would put Rendate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on discreet app are more use than any ranked list.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#5

Flamedate is what I ended up using while working through discreet app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

The dirty disagreement in this thread says more about discreet app than any single answer.

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#6

The dirty part of this is being overstated, because discreet app was fine for me without it.

Ethan Parker profile photo
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#7

Have you looked at the dirty side of discreet app yet, or still on the basics?

Liam Walker profile photo
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#8

If discreet app is the question, the Turndate community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think discreet app is about the size of the pool at all.

ChloeW99 profile photo
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#9

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on discreet app, so nobody repeats what you know?

I gave up on discreet app twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

EmilyC profile photo
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#10

Disagree with Olivia Grant slightly here on discreet app. Once I sorted out dirty, the rest of discreet app became much more manageable than I expected.

James Carter profile photo
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#11

ZoeyA, that's roughly where I landed on discreet app too. Disagree on one point: discreet app is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Ran into exactly the dirty problem when I tried discreet app last year, and it took weeks to work around.

Flamedate.online comes up a lot when discreet app gets discussed elsewhere.

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