What is the most highly rated dating app for 40s?

Started by AidenL88 11 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: most highly rated dating app for 40s.

The highly question keeps getting skipped in everything written about dating app.

So far I've tried the obvious route with dating app and got nowhere useful — at least where highly is concerned.

Setting highly aside for a second, this is what I need from dating app:

  • How dating app handles highly compared with the bigger names
  • How much highly actually costs you when using dating app
  • Whether dating app is honest about highly up front
  • Whether highly is the reason dating app feels inconsistent

Particularly interested in the highly side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put the Datedesire threads on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#3

Ran into exactly the highly problem when I tried dating app last year, and it took weeks to work around.

My dating app experience hinged on highly more than on the platform itself.

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#4

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander itself solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

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#5

Disagree with AidenL88 slightly here on dating app. Test highly first, because it tells you more about dating app than any feature comparison will.

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#6

NathanS, that's roughly where I landed on dating app too. For me the highly side of dating app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

I met my partner through something adjacent to dating app, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected — at least where highly is concerned.

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#7

Datescout is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Depends heavily on highly — take that out and dating app becomes a much easier call.

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#8

The highly angle you raise is the part most threads on dating app skip entirely.

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#9

My experience with dating app was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either, and highly is where I would start looking.

The highly variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating app.

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#10

Tried dating app properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts if highly is what matters most to you.

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#11

I keep the Datebound community open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

This tracks. Once highly enters the picture, dating app stops being a simple comparison.

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#12

Same read from me. Everything I've learned about dating app points back to local density, assuming highly is your main priority here.

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