What is the most reliable dating app for gay people seeking long-term love?

Started by Scarlett Rivera 7 replies Board: Niche & Community
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Scarlett Rivera profile photo
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#1

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: most reliable dating app for gay people seeking long-term love.

The long-term question keeps getting skipped in everything written about dating app.

Setting long-term aside for a second, this is what I need from dating app:

  • Whether long-term makes any material difference to dating app
  • Whether long-term is the reason dating app feels inconsistent
  • How dating app handles long-term compared with the bigger names
  • How much long-term actually costs you when using dating app
  • How the long-term experience on dating app compares month to month

Particularly interested in the long-term side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

If long-term matters to you then dating app narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

The long-term disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

PaigeR profile photo
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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Ezhookups community solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

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#4

My dating app experience hinged on long-term more than on the platform itself.

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#5

Read the small print on long-term before you commit to anything around dating app.

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#6

The long-term part of this is being overstated, because dating app was fine for me without it.

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#7

If dating app is the question, the Datingfly free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

The long-term variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating app.

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#8

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Flamedate itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

For me the long-term side of dating app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

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