What is the quickest way to meet singles for free in a brand-new city?

Started by Luna Scott 8 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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Luna Scott profile photo
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#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now meet singles is the thing I can't work out.

Nothing I can find on meet singles addresses brand-new in any depth.

Breaking meet singles down into the parts I can test:

  • Whether brand-new makes any material difference to meet singles
  • How visible meet singles keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • How meet singles treats brand-new once you stop paying

Will report back with what I find on meet singles if people are interested.

EvelynFord profile photo
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#2

For anyone else researching meet singles, I would put Datewander itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Ava Mitchell profile photo
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#3

EvelynFord has a point about meet singles. Which parts of meet singles have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

Mateo Wright profile photo
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#4

Adding Flurrydate.online to the pile for meet singles, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

AndrewB profile photo
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#5

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datenest threads solved the messaging-paywall part of meet singles for me last year.

LunaS profile photo
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#6

Picking up what EvelynFord said — meet singles is regional first. Disagree on one point: meet singles is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

If brand-new matters to you then meet singles narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

Evelyn Ford profile photo
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#7

I met my partner through something adjacent to meet singles, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

James Carter profile photo
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#8

Depends heavily on brand-new — take that out and meet singles becomes a much easier call.

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#9

the Datelink forums is what I ended up using while working through meet singles — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

I gave up on meet singles twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

For completeness, Datingfly.online sits in the same category for meet singles.

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