What would you rank as the top 5 dating app choices currently?

Started by MaddieLane 9 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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MaddieLane profile photo
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#1

Made an account specifically to ask this one — rank as the top 5 dating app choices currently, and where people actually land on it.

The choices question keeps getting skipped in everything written about dating app.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring dating app:, though choices is the part that actually decides it.

  • Whether choices is the reason dating app feels inconsistent
  • How the choices experience on dating app compares month to month
  • How dating app handles choices compared with the bigger names

Particularly interested in the choices side of dating app if anyone has been there.

HenryM profile photo
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#2

The choices angle you raise is the part most threads on dating app skip entirely.

Once I sorted out choices, the rest of dating app became much more manageable than I expected.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander itself solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

The choices part of this is being overstated, because dating app was fine for me without it.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#4

The choices disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

For me the choices side of dating app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

Amelia Brooks profile photo
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#5

Agreed, and specifically on choices — that is where dating app either works or falls apart.

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#6

Since we're comparing options around dating app, the Datingfly threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

One caution on dating app — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying once you factor choices into it.

Evelyn Ford profile photo
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#7

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Datelink itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

This tracks. Once choices enters the picture, dating app stops being a simple comparison.

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#8

Amelia Brooks, that's roughly where I landed on dating app too. If choices matters to you then dating app narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on dating app yet, which is itself an answer, at least judging by the choices side of it.

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#9

the Flamedate community is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Does choices actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating app?

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#10

Someone recommended Flurrydate's free tier to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

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