Where can I date singles only who want marriage?

Would appreciate honest takes on date singles — including from anyone who thinks it's the wrong question.

The problem with researching date singles is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

I gave date singles about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask.

The parts of date singles I'd want covered:

• How date singles handles marriage compared with the bigger names
• Whether the matching in date singles does anything beyond distance
• Whether the date singles experience holds up after the first fortnight
• What moderation on date singles actually looks like when you report someone

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on date singles.

Flurrydate is what I ended up using while working through date singles — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Tried date singles properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

The cheap test for date singles is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

If you are testing date singles, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

Watch for the pattern where date singles is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datewander boards solved the messaging-paywall part of date singles for me last year.

Disagree on one point: date singles is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

If date singles is the question, Flamedate itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.