Where can I find safe dating sites that don't sell user data?

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: find safe dating sites that don't sell user data.

Nobody writing about safe dating sites seems willing to say plainly when something isn't worth the time.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around safe dating sites before posting.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about safe dating sites:

• What happens to your data if you delete a safe dating sites account
• How safe dating sites handles sell compared with the bigger names
• What moderation on safe dating sites actually looks like when you report someone
• How long safe dating sites takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• Whether anyone has tested sell properly on safe dating sites

If you've actually used something relevant to safe dating sites, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with safe dating sites was the opposite of what's being described here.

Broadly with you on safe dating sites, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datebound threads solved the messaging-paywall part of safe dating sites for me last year.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where safe dating sites is concerned?

You've put your finger on the thing nobody says out loud about safe dating sites.

Adding Ezhookups to the pile for safe dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Someone recommended Turndate itself to me during my own search around safe dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Good thread — most discussion of safe dating sites online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.