Where can I find the most active fwb sites that aren't full of bots?

Started by AbbyRoss88 7 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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#1

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about active fwb sites, so I'm bringing it here.

It's genuinely difficult to separate marketing from experience when it comes to active fwb sites.

Breaking active fwb sites down into the parts I can test:

  • How long active fwb sites takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • What moderation on active fwb sites actually looks like when you report someone
  • How the bots experience on active fwb sites compares month to month

Will report back with what I find on active fwb sites if people are interested.

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#2

For anyone else researching active fwb sites, I would put the Ezhookups free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

The cheap test for active fwb sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

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#3

AbbyRoss88, that's roughly where I landed on active fwb sites too. What moved the needle for me on active fwb sites was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with active fwb sites here is genuinely useful.

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#4

My own run at active fwb sites: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

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#5

This tracks. Once bots enters the picture, active fwb sites stops being a simple comparison.

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#6

I keep the Datelink community open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with active fwb sites.

The honest answer on active fwb sites is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

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#7

If active fwb sites is the question, Datescout's free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

I'd qualify this: active fwb sites works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

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#8

The bots angle you raise is the part most threads on active fwb sites skip entirely.

For completeness, Turndate.site sits in the same category for active fwb sites.

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