Where do you guys look for real free sex personals nowadays?

Started by RyanO 9 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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#1

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: guys look for real free sex personals nowadays.

It's genuinely difficult to separate marketing from experience when it comes to guys.

Practically speaking, for guys I want to know:

  • Whether guys has real users outside the big metros
  • Whether guys is honest about nowadays up front
  • How guys treats nowadays once you stop paying
  • How much nowadays actually costs you when using guys
  • Whether the free tier on guys is genuinely usable or just a demo

Any first-hand experience with guys would help more than another list.

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#2

A friend had a good outcome with guys and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

Lucas Wilson profile photo
Joined 2020
Posts: 128
#3

Counterpoint — treating guys as a numbers problem is exactly what kept me stuck for a year.

Elizabeth Day profile photo
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#4

For anyone else researching guys, I would put Flamedate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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Joined 2021
Posts: 319
#5

Someone recommended the Datescout free tier to me during my own search around guys and it was better than I expected.

EthanP profile photo
Joined 2020
Posts: 526
#6

I keep the Datingfly free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with guys.

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Posts: 662
#7

Datelink itself is what I ended up using while working through guys — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Oliver Hayes profile photo
Joined 2023
Posts: 437
#8

Since we're comparing options around guys, the Datebie free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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Joined 2019
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#9

Respectfully, I think the framing of guys sets people up to be disappointed.

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Joined 2021
Posts: 460
#10

My own run at guys: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

Flurrydate.online comes up a lot when guys gets discussed elsewhere.

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