Where is the absolute best place to find a busy free gay chat random room?

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: is the absolute best place to find a busy free gay chat random room.

There's a real gap between how gay chat is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around gay chat before posting.

Breaking gay chat down into the parts I can test:

• Whether gay chat is honest about busy up front
• Whether the gay chat experience holds up after the first fortnight
• Whether busy makes any material difference to gay chat
• How much busy actually costs you when using gay chat
• How gay chat treats busy once you stop paying

Even a 'don't bother' on gay chat is a useful answer.

If busy matters to you then gay chat narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

Ran into exactly the busy problem when I tried gay chat last year, and it took weeks to work around.

If gay chat is the question, Flurrydate itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where gay chat is concerned?

The busy disagreement in this thread says more about gay chat than any single answer.

Since we're comparing options around gay chat, Turndate itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Adding the Datewander threads to the pile for gay chat, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Read the small print on busy before you commit to anything around gay chat.

Someone will probably mention Rendate.online before this thread is done.