Where is the best place to find a casual free dating chat without having to upload a bunch of photos?

Started by JackT 7 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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#1

I've spent about three months poking at free dating and I still don't have a clean answer.

What makes free dating hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

So far I've tried the obvious route with free dating and got nowhere useful.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about free dating:

  • Whether free dating is honest about bunch up front
  • How quickly free dating puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
  • How visible free dating keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • How free dating handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • How long free dating takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on free dating.

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#2

Ezhookups is what I ended up using while working through free dating — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#3

AnnaK has a point about free dating. Are you asking about free dating for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

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#4

AnnaK, that's roughly where I landed on free dating too. What's your actual goal here — is free dating about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

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#5

Someone recommended Datewander to me during my own search around free dating and it was better than I expected.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think free dating is about the size of the pool at all.

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#6

If free dating is the question, Datebound.site is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#7

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on free dating that I don't think survives contact with reality.

If bunch matters to you then free dating narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

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#8

For anyone else researching free dating, I would put the Luvdate forums on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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