Which lgbt dating apps are best for non-binary individuals?

Started by Amelia Brooks 9 replies Board: Niche & Community
Amelia Brooks profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is lgbt dating apps are best for non-binary individuals.

The non-binary question keeps getting skipped in everything written about dating apps.

Setting non-binary aside for a second, this is what I need from dating apps:

  • Whether non-binary makes any material difference to dating apps
  • How much non-binary actually costs you when using dating apps
  • Whether non-binary is the reason dating apps feels inconsistent

Particularly interested in the non-binary side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

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#2

My dating apps experience hinged on non-binary more than on the platform itself.

If non-binary matters to you then dating apps narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

WayneT profile photo
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#3

Does non-binary actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating apps?

Grace Turner profile photo
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#4

The non-binary variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating apps.

EmilyC profile photo
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#5

Disagree with ZachH slightly here on dating apps. Once I sorted out non-binary, the rest of dating apps became much more manageable than I expected.

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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datelink itself solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

Both things can be true about dating apps: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

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#7

Have you looked at the non-binary side of dating apps yet, or still on the basics?

Charlotte Hayes profile photo
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#8

The non-binary disagreement in this thread says more about dating apps than any single answer.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating apps, so nobody repeats what you know, which in the end is really a non-binary question?

Madison Reed profile photo
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#9

Someone recommended Datewander itself to me during my own search around dating apps and it was better than I expected.

Mason Clark profile photo
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#10

the Ezhookups forums is what I ended up using while working through dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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