Are there any decent dating sites without payment requirements to view profiles?

Started by Ella Simmons 9 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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Ella Simmons profile photo
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#1

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: decent dating sites without payment requirements to view profiles.

Nothing I can find on dating sites addresses requirements in any depth.

My checklist for dating sites, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether requirements makes any material difference to dating sites
  • Whether messaging on dating sites works without handing over card details
  • Whether the free tier on dating sites is genuinely usable or just a demo
  • How the requirements experience on dating sites compares month to month

Will report back with what I find on dating sites if people are interested.

ChrisV profile photo
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#2

The requirements disagreement in this thread says more about dating sites than any single answer.

Respectfully, I think the framing of dating sites sets people up to be disappointed.

NoraHill profile photo
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#3

Datebie is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#4

There is a version of dating sites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

This matches what I've seen with dating sites, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

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#5

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating sites looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

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#6

I keep Rendate itself open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

Lucas Wilson profile photo
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#7

If dating sites is the question, the Flurrydate forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#8

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datebound forums solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

Luna Scott profile photo
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#9

Agreed, and specifically on requirements — that is where dating sites either works or falls apart.

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#10

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with dating sites weren't on the biggest platform.

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