Are there any femdom dating sites that are well-moderated and safe?

Made an account specifically to ask this one — femdom dating sites that are well-moderated and safe, and where people actually land on it.

Every comparison of dating sites I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

What would actually change my mind about dating sites:

• Whether dating sites is honest about femdom up front
• How quickly dating sites puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
• How long dating sites takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• How dating sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
• Whether femdom makes any material difference to dating sites

Any first-hand experience with dating sites would help more than another list.

Someone recommended the Datewander threads to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Agreed, and specifically on femdom — that is where dating sites either works or falls apart.

Depends what you mean by dating sites, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

If you are testing dating sites, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

the Datebie threads is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

The cheap test for dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

I keep Flurrydate's free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

Hard disagree on the femdom point. That has not been my experience of dating sites at all.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Ezhookups forums solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

OwenM, that's roughly where I landed on dating sites too. A friend had a good outcome with dating sites and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

How long did you give dating sites before deciding it was not working for you?

Rendate.site comes up a lot when dating sites gets discussed elsewhere.