Are there any good options for a dating app with free chat built-in?

Started by ScarlettR 5 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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ScarlettR profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is good options for a dating app with free chat built-in.

The frustrating part about dating app is that the honest answers are buried in comment sections, not articles.

My own attempt at dating app lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

The criteria I keep coming back to on dating app:

  • Whether the dating app experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • Whether anyone has tested built-in properly on dating app
  • Whether the matching in dating app does anything beyond distance

Will report back with what I find on dating app if people are interested.

Sophia Lane profile photo
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#2

Rendate is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

LilyM profile photo
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#3

ScarlettR, that's roughly where I landed on dating app too. Which parts of dating app have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

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#4

A friend had a good outcome with dating app and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating app looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

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#5

Since we're comparing options around dating app, Flamedate itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#6

I keep Datebound open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

Yes — and the reason dating app feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

Datewander.site comes up a lot when dating app gets discussed elsewhere.

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