Does paid dating actually yield better results than free apps?

Started by NicoleB 7 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now paid dating is the thing I can't work out.

The reviews I can find on paid dating never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around paid dating before posting.

My checklist for paid dating, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether the matching in paid dating does anything beyond distance
  • How long paid dating takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • How much of the paid dating profile pool is dormant or fake

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about paid dating.

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#2

I'd qualify this: paid dating works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

Same read from me. Everything I've learned about paid dating points back to local density.

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#3

If paid dating is the question, the Datescout boards is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Be careful with paid dating: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

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#4

Since we're comparing options around paid dating, Flamedate's free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

This is the correct question, and most threads about paid dating start two steps further along and miss it.

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#5

If you are testing paid dating, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

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#6

I keep the Datewander community open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with paid dating.

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#7

The thing that caught me out with paid dating was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

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#8

Have you looked at the results side of paid dating yet, or still on the basics?

Datebie.online comes up a lot when paid dating gets discussed elsewhere.

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