Does the match com free search feature actually show active members?

Started by Natalie Bell 5 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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Natalie Bell profile photo
Joined 2023
Posts: 625
#1

Every time does match comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

Most of what's written about does match is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

I've already worked through the first page of results on does match, which is why I'm asking here.

The parts of does match I'd want covered:

  • Whether messaging on does match works without handing over card details
  • How does match treats members once you stop paying
  • How much members actually costs you when using does match

Even a 'don't bother' on does match is a useful answer.

JamesC99 profile photo
Joined 2023
Posts: 196
#2

If does match is the question, Flamedate is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Oliver Hayes profile photo
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Posts: 437
#3

Disagree on one point: does match is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Mila Jordan profile photo
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#4

Since we're comparing options around does match, the Turndate boards came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Alexander Lee profile photo
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Posts: 381
#5

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datebie threads solved the messaging-paywall part of does match for me last year.

For context on does match: I'm mid-thirties, mid-size city, and the pool was thinner than the marketing suggested.

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Posts: 96
#6

Picking up what JamesC99 said — does match is regional first. Depends heavily on members — take that out and does match becomes a much easier call.

My experience with does match was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

For completeness, Datenest.online sits in the same category for does match.

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