How can older women searching for younger men easily avoid romance scammers online?

Started by Aubrey Clark 9 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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Aubrey Clark profile photo
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#1

Posting this because searching for an answer on older women turns up nothing but sponsored lists.

Every comparison of older women I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about older women:

  • Whether easily makes any material difference to older women
  • What the easily side of older women looks like in practice
  • What moderation on older women actually looks like when you report someone
  • Whether the matching in older women does anything beyond distance
  • Whether older women has real users outside the big metros

Will report back with what I find on older women if people are interested.

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#2

If older women is the question, Datewander.site is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#3

Since we're comparing options around older women, Turndate itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#4

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flurrydate threads solved the messaging-paywall part of older women for me last year.

Read the small print on easily before you commit to anything around older women.

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#5

Yes — and the reason older women feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

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#6

The thing that caught me out with older women was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

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#7

For anyone else researching older women, I would put Datelink on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

It's telling how many replies here about older women contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

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#8

For me the easily side of older women was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

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#9

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on older women yet, which is itself an answer.

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#10

Someone recommended Datingfly.online to me during my own search around older women and it was better than I expected.

My rule for older women is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

Flamedate.online comes up a lot when older women gets discussed elsewhere.

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