How do I permanently fix the lag on my cam4 live broadcasts?

I've spent about three months poking at cam and I still don't have a clean answer.

There's a real gap between how cam is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

I gave cam about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask.

Concretely, for cam, these are my criteria:

• What moderation on cam actually looks like when you report someone
• How quickly cam puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
• How long cam takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• Whether the cam experience holds up after the first fortnight

Even a 'don't bother' on cam is a useful answer.

The thing that caught me out with cam was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

I'd separate broadcasts from cam here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flamedate boards solved the messaging-paywall part of cam for me last year.

Same read from me. Everything I've learned about cam points back to local density.

Disagree with Natalie Bell slightly here on cam. The honest answer on cam is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think cam is about the size of the pool at all.

Someone recommended the Datebie boards to me during my own search around cam and it was better than I expected.

I keep Datescout open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with cam.