How do you use a dating profile finder to see if someone is on multiple sites?

Started by AmandaH 11 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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AmandaH profile photo
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#1

Every time dating profile comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on dating profile and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating profile before posting.

Setting multiple aside for a second, this is what I need from dating profile:

  • Whether anyone has tested multiple properly on dating profile
  • How quickly dating profile puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started
  • How much multiple actually costs you when using dating profile

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on dating profile.

HannahM22 profile photo
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#2

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with dating profile was the opposite of what's being described here.

The multiple part of this is being overstated, because dating profile was fine for me without it.

RussellM profile photo
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#3

Someone recommended the Datingfly free tier to me during my own search around dating profile and it was better than I expected.

PhilipC profile photo
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#4

This matches what I've seen with dating profile, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

My dating profile experience hinged on multiple more than on the platform itself.

JamesC99 profile photo
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#5

My experience with dating profile was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

Elizabeth Day profile photo
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#6

Adding Datelink's free tier to the pile for dating profile, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

ConnorM profile photo
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#7

If dating profile is the question, the Flamedate free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

PaigeR profile photo
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#8

RussellM, that's roughly where I landed on dating profile too. Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on dating profile yet, which is itself an answer.

This tracks. Once multiple enters the picture, dating profile stops being a simple comparison.

Noah Bennett profile photo
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#9

Disagree with HannahM22 slightly here on dating profile. The multiple element is where people get stung with dating profile, so check it before anything else.

Depends what you mean by dating profile, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

Alexander Lee profile photo
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#10

HannahM22 has a point about dating profile. Respectfully, I think the framing of dating profile sets people up to be disappointed.

Sebastian Allen profile photo
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#11

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datewander community solved the messaging-paywall part of dating profile for me last year.

GarrettL profile photo
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#12

Picking up what PhilipC said — dating profile is regional first. If you go down the dating profile route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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