Is a jail dating app safe to use if you're looking for a pen pal?

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is is a jail dating app safe to use if you're looking for a pen pal.

Half the discussion around dating app is people arguing from a two-year-old version of the product.

So far I've tried the obvious route with dating app and got nowhere useful.

Specifically, on dating app, the things I actually care about are:

• What the jail side of dating app looks like in practice
• How visible dating app keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
• How much jail actually costs you when using dating app
• Whether dating app has real users outside the big metros

Tell me what I'm missing about dating app.

Both things can be true about dating app: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

For me the jail side of dating app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

Since we're comparing options around dating app, Flurrydate came up when I was looking at the same thing.

How long did you give dating app before deciding it was not working for you?

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on dating app yet, which is itself an answer.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datebie free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

The honest answer on dating app is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

Someone recommended the Flamedate forums to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

the Datebound community is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

If you go down the dating app route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

Agreed, and specifically on jail — that is where dating app either works or falls apart.

To build on Liam Walker's answer about dating app: This is the correct question, and most threads about dating app start two steps further along and miss it.

Lily Moore, that's roughly where I landed on dating app too. Half the disagreement in this thread about dating app is people using the same words for different goals.

Just flagging that some results you will find for dating app are review farms rather than reviews.