Is an asexual dating app actually populated enough to find a match?

Started by ChloeW99 7 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

I've spent about three months poking at dating app and I still don't have a clean answer.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on dating app and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

My own attempt at dating app lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

What would actually change my mind about dating app:

  • How dating app treats asexual once you stop paying
  • Whether dating app is honest about asexual up front
  • Whether asexual makes any material difference to dating app
  • Whether anyone has tested asexual properly on dating app
  • Whether asexual is worth prioritising over everything else in dating app

If you've actually used something relevant to dating app, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

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#2

the Datelink threads is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

If you go down the dating app route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#3

You've put your finger on the thing nobody says out loud about dating app.

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#4

ChloeW99 has a point about dating app. Tried dating app properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

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#5

Adding Datedesire.online to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

My rule for dating app is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

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#6

Picking up what TerrenceJ said — dating app is regional first. Are you asking about dating app for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

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#7

Broadly with you on dating app, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

How long did you give dating app before deciding it was not working for you?

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#8

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flurrydate threads solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

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