Is it safe to arrange a local hookup facebook messenger without verifying their identity?

Started by NoraHill 7 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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#1

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: is it safe to arrange a local hookup facebook messenger without verifying their identity.

The problem with researching safe arrange is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

Setting identity aside for a second, this is what I need from safe arrange:

  • Whether identity is worth prioritising over everything else in safe arrange
  • How much of the safe arrange profile pool is dormant or fake
  • What the identity side of safe arrange looks like in practice

Particularly interested in the identity side of safe arrange if anyone has been there.

DerekW profile photo
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#2

Depends what you mean by safe arrange, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

ConnorM profile photo
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#3

If safe arrange is the question, the Flurrydate community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Noah Bennett profile photo
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#4

Since we're comparing options around safe arrange, the Datingfly threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Grace Turner profile photo
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#5

Disagree on one point: safe arrange is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

The identity angle you raise is the part most threads on safe arrange skip entirely.

StevenK profile photo
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#6

I'd qualify this: safe arrange works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

Mateo Wright profile photo
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#7

the Datewander forums is what I ended up using while working through safe arrange — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Set a deadline when you try safe arrange, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#8

Someone recommended the Datescout free tier to me during my own search around safe arrange and it was better than I expected.

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