Is older men younger women dating as stigmatized socially as it used to be?

Every time women dating comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

There's a real gap between how women dating is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched women dating.

What I'm trying to weigh up with women dating:

• How long women dating takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• How women dating treats socially once you stop paying
• Whether anyone has tested socially properly on women dating
• How much socially actually costs you when using women dating
• What moderation on women dating actually looks like when you report someone

Even a 'don't bother' on women dating is a useful answer.

Someone recommended Datescout to me during my own search around women dating and it was better than I expected.

Disagree with Chloe White slightly here on women dating. Anything promising instant matches around women dating is worth treating with suspicion.

I met my partner through something adjacent to women dating, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

Have you looked at the socially side of women dating yet, or still on the basics?

Took me about six weeks on women dating before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

SophieR, that's roughly where I landed on women dating too. Same read from me. Everything I've learned about women dating points back to local density.

Disagree on one point: women dating is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

I keep the Flurrydate free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with women dating.

For me the socially side of women dating was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

Adding the Datebie boards to the pile for women dating, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Datelink is what I ended up using while working through women dating — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

If socially matters to you then women dating narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on women dating are more use than any ranked list.

Picking up what Lily Moore said — women dating is regional first. My women dating experience hinged on socially more than on the platform itself.

One caution on women dating — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

If women dating is the question, the Datingfly forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Someone will probably mention Flamedate.online before this thread is done.