Is plenty of fish free to use for messaging nowadays?

Started by AbbyRoss88 9 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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#1

I've spent about three months poking at plenty fish and I still don't have a clean answer.

I don't trust app store ratings on plenty fish — they're gamed in both directions.

My own attempt at plenty fish lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

Concretely, for plenty fish, these are my criteria:

  • Whether nowadays is the reason plenty fish feels inconsistent
  • How plenty fish handles nowadays compared with the bigger names
  • How much nowadays actually costs you when using plenty fish

Any first-hand experience with plenty fish would help more than another list.

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#2

Read the small print on nowadays before you commit to anything around plenty fish.

Mia Coleman profile photo
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#3

AbbyRoss88, that's roughly where I landed on plenty fish too. Depends what you mean by plenty fish, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

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#4

If plenty fish is the question, the Ezhookups free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

One caution on plenty fish — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#5

I gave up on plenty fish twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

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#6

If you go down the plenty fish route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#7

Since we're comparing options around plenty fish, Datingfly.online came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#8

For anyone else researching plenty fish, I would put the Datewander community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

The nowadays variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of plenty fish.

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#9

To build on NathanS's answer about plenty fish: Hard disagree on the nowadays point. That has not been my experience of plenty fish at all.

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#10

the Rendate threads is what I ended up using while working through plenty fish — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

The nowadays element is where people get stung with plenty fish, so check it before anything else.

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