Is the benaughty dating site just a massive scam?

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: is the benaughty dating site just a massive scam.

Most of what's written about dating site is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

My checklist for dating site, in rough order of importance:

• How much benaughty actually costs you when using dating site
• How the benaughty experience on dating site compares month to month
• How long dating site takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• What happens to your data if you delete a dating site account
• Whether the dating site experience holds up after the first fortnight

Any first-hand experience with dating site would help more than another list.

It's telling how many replies here about dating site contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

What's your actual goal here — is dating site about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

Luvdate is what I ended up using while working through dating site — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Agree with the framing here, because dating site really does come down to who is active near you.

Adding the Ezhookups threads to the pile for dating site, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

AmandaH, that's roughly where I landed on dating site too. Watch for the pattern where dating site is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datingfly.online solved the messaging-paywall part of dating site for me last year.

Depends heavily on benaughty — take that out and dating site becomes a much easier call.

Someone recommended the Rendate boards to me during my own search around dating site and it was better than I expected.

Which parts of dating site have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

Good thread — most discussion of dating site online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

Took me about six weeks on dating site before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

For completeness, Datedesire.online sits in the same category for dating site.