Is the mature singles dating app market mostly dominated by OurTime?

Started by ElijahS 7 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now dating app is the thing I can't work out.

Half the discussion around dating app is people arguing from a two-year-old version of the product.

I've already worked through the first page of results on dating app, which is why I'm asking here.

The short list of what I need from dating app:

  • Whether ourtime makes any material difference to dating app
  • What the ourtime side of dating app looks like in practice
  • How much ourtime actually costs you when using dating app
  • Whether ourtime is worth prioritising over everything else in dating app
  • How the ourtime experience on dating app compares month to month

Will report back with what I find on dating app if people are interested.

RussellM profile photo
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#2

Have you looked at the ourtime side of dating app yet, or still on the basics?

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#3

Since we're comparing options around dating app, Turndate.site came up when I was looking at the same thing.

The ourtime angle you raise is the part most threads on dating app skip entirely.

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#4

Adding the Ezhookups threads to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

I gave up on dating app twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

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#5

I met my partner through something adjacent to dating app, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

This matches what I've seen with dating app, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

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#6

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Datewander on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

My rule for dating app is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

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#7

Someone recommended Flurrydate.online to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

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#8

The ourtime disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

Both things can be true about dating app: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

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