Is the oasis dating site still completely free for all users?

Started by MateoW 10 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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MateoW profile photo
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#1

Would appreciate honest takes on dating site — including from anyone who thinks it's the wrong question.

The problem with researching dating site is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

Practically speaking, for dating site I want to know:

  • What moderation on dating site actually looks like when you report someone
  • What the oasis side of dating site looks like in practice
  • Whether dating site is honest about oasis up front
  • What happens to your data if you delete a dating site account

Will report back with what I find on dating site if people are interested.

Nora Hill profile photo
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#2

Adding Turndate itself to the pile for dating site, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Disagree on one point: dating site is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

SarahK profile photo
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#3

What moved the needle for me on dating site was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

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#4

I keep the Flamedate free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating site.

Good thread — most discussion of dating site online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#5

Broadly with you on dating site, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

My own run at dating site: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

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#6

Flurrydate itself is what I ended up using while working through dating site — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Be careful with dating site: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

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#7

Picking up what CharlotteH said — dating site is regional first. Are you asking about dating site for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

Alexander Lee profile photo
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#8

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie's free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating site for me last year.

StephC profile photo
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#9

Depends what you mean by dating site, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

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#10

For me the oasis side of dating site was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

If you go down the dating site route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#11

For anyone else researching dating site, I would put Datingfly on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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