Is the site onlinebootycall com strictly for hookups?

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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned site in passing and it's been bugging me since.

It's genuinely difficult to separate marketing from experience when it comes to site.

I've already worked through the first page of results on site, which is why I'm asking here.

Concretely, for site, these are my criteria:

  • How site treats onlinebootycall once you stop paying
  • How much onlinebootycall actually costs you when using site
  • Whether the free tier on site is genuinely usable or just a demo
  • What moderation on site actually looks like when you report someone
  • How much of the site profile pool is dormant or fake

Particularly interested in the onlinebootycall side of site if anyone has been there.

JackT profile photo
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#2

For anyone else researching site, I would put the Flamedate boards on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Disagree on one point: site is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

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#3

Be careful with site: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

It's telling how many replies here about site contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

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#4

Picking up what ChrisV said — site is regional first. One caution on site — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#5

I keep the Flurrydate boards open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with site.

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#6

How long did you give site before deciding it was not working for you?

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on site yet, which is itself an answer.

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#7

Someone recommended Datewander's free tier to me during my own search around site and it was better than I expected.

My rule for site is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

OliverH profile photo
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#8

The honest answer on site is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

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#9

EllaS, that's roughly where I landed on site too. Do you care more about cost or about moderation where site is concerned?

The onlinebootycall angle you raise is the part most threads on site skip entirely.

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#10

the Ezhookups free tier is what I ended up using while working through site — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

The onlinebootycall disagreement in this thread says more about site than any single answer.

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#11

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datescout threads solved the messaging-paywall part of site for me last year.

Worth splitting site into two questions, because the answers pull in opposite directions.

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#12

Adding the Rendate free tier to the pile for site, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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